So lovely M is currently vacationing in Tenerife with her fathers family. I just talked to her on the phone, I have a dress on, I swim and swim and swim!! And I'm in "syden" mamma. AAAAA she's so thankful for every bit of joy she can be a part of. I wish I could find true happy in all the little things, not that I think I'm ungrateful but as you get older you can get a bit jaded.
I had a long talk with Sunbeam about liars. And why do people lie? and some so much more than other people?? Personally I admit I lie everyday, white lies and some just to not "go there". To avoid and protect myself. Maby it's a defence mechanism? In what a degree a lie is necessary or unnecessary can be hard to judge. Sometimes you just have to jump into things and forget what it was all about. But as age and maturity comes along it gets easier to know when not to lie and when it is OK. So why do so many people just keep on lying about everything?? Where is the understanding of beeing a grown up? it must be so much hard work keeping up a lie or lies. It is better to just be real and stay true to what you stand for.
In the tv-show House MD, Dr. House has an ongoing comment: everybody lies. And I guess that is true.
The movie, invenntion of lying staring Ricky Gervavis is a movie worth watching.
In a world where everyone can only tell the truth... ...this guy can lie. A funny movie about lying :-)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfUZND486Ik
It took me a while to find the energy to write another post, but after sleeping for a week I finaly did it.
Posting Posting new post
Abonner på:
Legg inn kommentarer (Atom)
Fra min filosofiske livsverden er jeg enig i at en tar hvite løgner i hverdagen for å beskytte seg selv. Det er noe "alle" gjør. Noen ganger lyver en store løgner ogsål, men igjen noen ganger for å beskytte seg selv, sin skam , sin sårbarhet, sin livsverden en ikke ønsker å dele med resten av verden. Om det er riktig eller ei vet jeg ei....
SvarSlettundrende..... kanskje vi skal diskutere det en dag sammen ?